Phoning your date

Posted by adultsdatingonline | Posted in Dating Preparation | Posted on 15-10-2010-05-2008


Phoning your date can be awkward at first. A lot of people do not like talking on the phone. They prefer to speak in person or through text. Text can be very impersonal and sometimes speaking in person is not an option. Speaking on the phone is something that some people are better at than others. If you are a person that doesn’t like speaking on the phone then there are a few things that you can do to make it easier.

Don’t Over Plan

While it is a good idea to make a phone call knowing what it is that you are going to say you should make sure that you don’t over plan your conversation. If you have every single sentence planned out then chances are you are going to be stumped when the person on the other line says something that wasn’t in your script.


It can be easy to let your nerves get to you whenever you are talking on the phone to somebody that you do not know well. Make sure that you try to relax some and have fun with the conversation. Whenever nerves take hold of a phone conversation they tend to get really awkward really fast. If you feel it heading in that direction try to acknowledge your nerves and let them go.


If you find that your nerves are getting the better of you then just let the person on the phone know that you don’t enjoy phone conversations. You may be surprised to see that they feel the same way.

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